ABUSE HAS EARLY STOPPING POINTS
NEW BRAINTREE, MA July 20, 2012 - There are usually points in time during intimate relationships when partners become angry at one another. This is a normal part of the evolution of the relationship and and comes as two separate identities attempt to form an intimate dyad. Physical violence is not part of this growth process, in fact, violence destroys intimacy and trust. Violence is often a sign of insecurity on the part of the controlling partner representing the worst fears and deeply felt guilt, shame, and anger. The abusive spouse often leaves a trail of victims in his past starting as early as middle school. These failed relationships serve as an important warning to new girlfriends and boyfriends.
Choking and stealing the cell phones of intimate partners are containment points and far exceed what should be considered a normal part of the dating relationship. When these behaviors occur it is best to do whatever is necessary to protect oneself.
Just as you might put a stop to a door to door salesman pitching kitchen knives, early jealousy must be stopped before it moves to the next unpredictable level as it quickly did in Boston in July.
Just as you might put a stop to a door to door salesman pitching kitchen knives, early jealousy must be stopped before it moves to the next unpredictable level as it quickly did in Boston in July.